Girls Gone Mild
Wendy Shalit has written another book encouraging girls (and parents) to buck the trend of sexualizing virtually everything to do with girls of almost any age. Here is an excerpt of Mona Charen's review:
Her skepticism about the bacchanal we call modern sex is undiminished. The book opens with a discussion of Bratz dolls (sold by MGA Entertainment), apparently aimed at ages "four-plus." "Bratz Babyz makes a 'Babyz Nite Out' doll garbed in fishnet stockings, a hot-pink micromini, and a black leather belt . . . . the baby also sports a tummy-flaunting black tank paired with a hot-pink cap. 'These Babyz demand to be lookin' good on the street, at the beach, or chillin' in the crib.'" Another of the dolls wears heavy red lipstick and bright toenail polish to match red panties. One is almost reduced to sputtering.
For the slightly older set, the "tweens" (girls between 9 and 12), Target markets thong underwear. Apparently you can find "Care Bear" thongs at some retailers and "push-up" bras at Kohl's for the first-time bra purchaser.
American popular culture seems determined to obliterate innocence — even in the crib! But Shalit's critique is not so much prudish as pitying. Her deepest insights concern the new repression that has been imposed on young women. Repression? In this "liberated" age? Read on.
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I read parts of Wendy's previous book and I am glad to see a young woman writing to encourage other young women to bypass the hookup scene and to be comfortable about not wearing the fashionable styles that put everything on display (I am *so* glad that shirt styles are getting longer...). I really don't understand why parents are in such a hurry for their girls to have boyfriends and why they accept what the culture tells them is appropriate for their children. This book sounds like a good read - I'll have to add it to my list.
---Katie

